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Wednesday, 18 January 2017
"What would you tell your teenage self?"
We went and asked strangers: "What would you tell your teenage self?". Here are some of their answers.
"I would like to tell my teenage self that life gets better."
"To take every day one step at a time. You are who you are and you can't really do anything to change it."
"Just don't care, realize it really doesn't matter."
"Be yourself, just do it!"
Written by Naomi Duggan
"I would like to tell my teenage self that life gets better."
"To take every day one step at a time. You are who you are and you can't really do anything to change it."
"Just don't care, realize it really doesn't matter."
"Be yourself, just do it!"
Written by Naomi Duggan
The Untold Truth of Body Dysmorphia.
IMAGINE walking across the school
hallway while thinking that people are constantly teasing and
making fun of you.
IMAGINE not being able to focus in
class because all you can think of is 'your
nonexistent physical
flaws'.
IMAGINE avoiding mirrors because you
didn't want to encounter someone with such repulsive and unsightly
looks.
IMAGINE thinking that
no one will ever like you,
only because of your appearance.
IMAGINE living your day-to-day life
obsessing about something that isn't even there.
The body dysmorphic disorder (BDD) is a mental illness in which someone is addicted to the nonexistent defects in their appearance.
Cause
The cause of body dysmorphia is unknown, however according to researchers, many factors increase the likelihood of getting BDD. Some of these factors include: depression, bullying, fear of being alone and a competitive character.
Some of the Signs and Symptoms of BDD (according to Anxiety & Depression Association of America) include:
- Disguised appearance (with body positions, makeup, clothing, etc.)
- Avoiding mirrors
- Checking in mirrors
- Skin picking
- Excessive exercise and grooming
- Seeking surgery
- Constantly changing clothes
- Comparing appearances to others
Some of the common areas of BDD:
Stats
The body dysmorphic disorder begins most usually during adolescents. According
to Anxiety
& Depression Association of America,
“Research shows that
it affects men and women almost equally. About one percent of the
U.S. population has BDD.”, meaning that at least 3 millions people in the US suffer from body dysmorphia.
Effects on Life:
- Have a hard time taking control in
their life and taking responsibility
- Poor quality of life
- Low self esteem
- Obsession with their appearance
- Hard time keeping relationships
- High levels of stress
Famous People with BDD:
- Andy Warhol
- Micheal Jackson
- Shirley Manson
In closing
In the final analysis, according to Webmd, the body dysmorphic disorder "is a distinct mental disorder in which a person is preoccupied with an imagined physical defect or a minor defect that others often cannot see." BDD is often mistaken for OCD or anxiety disorders, seeing that they both share similar characteristics. Currently, there is a low quantity of research done worldwide on BDD, go and increase the research by funding to the Body Dysmorphic Disorder Foundation.
Written by Naomi Duggan
SCREEN TEENS
“Rule 1 of the Thin Commandments: If
you aren't thin, you aren't attractive.” On pro-ana websites, a
life-threatening eating disorder is seen as a lifestyle.
"Drink up to a shot of apple cider vinegar before eating. Ice
or gum are good food substitutes.
Wear
a rubber band around your wrist and snap it when you want to eat.
Food = pain.” These are some of the tips that young girls share to
motivate each other to achieve an unhealthy body weight. These types
of communities can further degrade these women's distorted eating
habits and are encouraging our society to promote these serious
illnesses.
Over
the past few decades, adolescents spend much more time on the
internet are influenced by its content.
CONS OF THE INTERNET
CONS OF THE INTERNET
Since the 1930's, the amount of women
age 15-19 with anorexia has increased, and it is unquestionably
caused by the arrival of the internet.
Social media
On social media, users share a 'perfect version' of their day-to-day life. Many will compare themselves and second-guess their appearance. With the majority of Canadians using social media on a daily basis, social media largely impact one's self worth. In fact, a survey by Florida State University "found that a group of women who were asked to browse Facebook for 20 minutes experienced greater body dissatisfaction than those who spent 20 minutes online, researching rain forest cats".
Pro-ana & Pro-mia
Pro-ana and Pro-mia (stands for pro-anorexia and pro-bulimia) websites are a community that view eating disorders as a lifestyle rather that a very serious disorder. They teach each others tips to obtain an extremely low body weight and encourages the young girls to continue down the road of self-destruction. In fact, 96% of teens diagnosed with an eating disorder who visited these sites learned new dieting and purging techniques.
PROS OF THE INTERNET
On
the brighter side, many social media websites block images and
post that promote eating disorders. Per example, Pinterest bans
content that encourages eating disorders.
Also,
many people who struggle or struggled with an eating disorder use
social media to document their recovery. Likewise, some users create accounts on social media to encourage people to love their bodies.
Go follow them on Instagram!
In closing
In
the final analysis, the internet has plenty of negative content such as pro-ana websites but
it's also an incredible resource to encourage people to recover from
their illnesses. It is important to be able to distinguish the 'good'
content from the 'bad' content found on the internet. We should teach
young girls and boys to love themselves no matter what they look like.
Sometime in the future, perhaps no one will be concerned about their
appearance and we will all love ourselves for who we are and not what
we look like.
Written by Naomi Duggan
Tuesday, 17 January 2017
Starving for Perfection - Eating Disorders
Every single hour at least one person dies as direct result from an eating disorder. Eating disorders are the most deadly psychiatric disorder. According to the Government of Canada, eating disorders are characterized by body dissatisfaction, thin-ideal internalization, dieting and family social support deficit. This disorder usually develops in teenage years and young adulthood. Perfectionist attitude toward school or work, low self-esteem, and distorted body image are some of the common attribute to someone with an eating disorder.
Anorexia Nervosa
Anorexia nervosa – also called anorexia- is an medical condition, in which the patient starves themselves in the desire of losing weight. Around 1% of teenage girls suffer from anorexia.
Some of signs and symptoms of anorexia (according to Mayoclinic) are:
Physical
- Extreme weight loss
- Thin appearance
- Insomnia
- Fatigue
- Dizziness/Fainting
- Bluish extremities
- Hair that falls out
- Absence of menstruation
- Osteoporosis
- Dry and yellow tinted skin
- Intolerance of cold
Behavior (psychological)
- Dieting and fasting and/or excessive exercise
- Preoccupation with food
- Denial to hunger
- Refusal to eat
- Extreme fear to gain weight
- Social withdrawal
- Lack of emotions
Long term complications
- Heart problems
- Bone loss, which increases the risks of fractures
Binge Eating Disorder
Binge eating disorder (BED) is a disorder in which someone eats uncontrollably for a short period of time on recurring basis.The binge eating disorder affects 1.6% of American teenagers (1). According to Womenshealth.gov, as many as 4 million Americans have the binge eating disorder. Binge eating disorder affects women slightly more often than men. The majority of people suffering from BED also suffer from obesity.
Some of signs and symptoms (according to Mayoclinic) are:
- Eating unusually large amounts of food in a specific amount of time, such as over a 2-hour period
- Feeling that your eating behavior is out of control
- Eating even when you're full or not hungry
- Eating rapidly during binge episodes
- Eating until you're uncomfortably full
- Frequently eating alone or in secret
- Feeling depressed, disgusted, ashamed, guilty or upset about your eating
- Frequently dieting, possibly without weight loss
Long term complications (according to the National Eating Disorders Collaboration)
- Osteoarthritis
- Chronic kidney problems or kidney failure
- High blood pressure and/or high cholesterol
Bulimia Nervosa
Bulimia nervosa (bulimia) is similar to the binge eating disorder, however someone with bulimia will purge (by vomiting or by using laxatives) after the binge in order to prevent weight gain. According to the NEDA, Bulimia nervosa affects 1-2% of adolescent and young adult women.
Some of signs and symptoms (according to the Mayoclinic) are:
- Being preoccupied with your body shape and weight
- Living in fear of gaining weight
- Feeling that you can't control your eating behavior
- Eating until the point of discomfort or pain
- Eating much more food in a binge episode than in a normal meal or snack
- Forcing yourself to vomit or exercise too much to keep from gaining weight after bingeing
- Misusing laxatives, diuretics or enemas after eating
- Restricting calories or avoiding certain foods between binges
- Using dietary supplements or herbal products excessively for weight loss
Long term complications
- Electrolyte imbalances
- Inflammation and possible rupture of the esophagus from frequent vomiting
- Tooth decay
- Chronic irregular bowel movements and constipation as a result of laxative abuse
In closing
In the final analysis, eating disorders are a serious illness that can cause severe complications and even death. This type of disorder can also ruin your relationship with your loved ones. The world must try to prevent and raise awareness to this serious illness.
World eating disorder day is on June 2, 2017. Use the hashtag #WorldEatingDisordersDay and take a stand against eating disorders.
Written by Naomi Duggan
Sunday, 15 January 2017
A guide to happiness and self-love
- A healthy body is a healthy mind!
Your body is extremely precious and
quite possibly the only one you'll ever have. You shouldn't treat it
carelessly, but with tender love and care.
EATING
Eat a well balanced diet! Consume
plenty of whole foods that contain nutrient that are vital to your
health and that keep you energized. If you eat something and don't
feel so good afterwards, it should be a sign that it might not be
good for your body. Get your vitamins, your minerals and most
importantly don't deprive yourself! Don't forget to indulge every now
and then!
FOODS THAT MAKE YOU HAPPY!
- Foods high in probiotics such as
kimchi, kefir, yogurt and sauerkraut
- Mushrooms
- Dark leafy vegetables like kale
HYDRATION
It is recommended for teens to drink
around 6-7 cups of water per day. Did you know that dehydration can
cause fatigue, headaches, poor concentration and affect your sport
performance?
SLEEP
The recommended amount of sleep per day
is 7-9 hours. Not enough sleep per night can lead to more negative
thoughts throughout the day.
EXERCISE
Everyone should get at least one hour
of exercise per day. It not only increases your life expectancy but
it also releases endorphin's, 'the happy hormone'.
DE-STRESS
Adolescence can be stressful for some.
According
to an annual survey published by the American Psychological
Association, teens are more stressed out than adults. Some of the
effects of stress on our bodies are headaches, muscle tension, fatigue
and sleep problems. To relieve stress listen to some music, take a
hot bath or do some yoga.
- Dress to impress... yourself!
Wear
clothing that make you feel like a million bucks! Don't dress to
please anyone else but yourself!
- Surround yourself with positive people
Spend
more time with friends and family who love and support you! Make sure
you enjoy spending time with those people!
- Help other people!
Go
do some volunteering or donate clothes to people in need! Did know
that helping others triggers the part of the brain responsible for the
feeling of 'reward'. It also lowers stress levels and makes us feel
good about ourselves.
- Find something you absolutely love doing!
Find
something you're passionate about! Avoid spending time focusing on
your appearance and spend time doing things that you love and make
you happy!
- Admire other peoples beauty without questioning your own
Don't
compare your body to others. Everybody is different and everybody is
beautiful in their own way!
- Inform yourself!
Read
books and watch videos about body image.
Websites:
mediasmarts.ca/
http://selfesteem.dove.ca/
Youtube
videos:
- The
perfect body – blogilates
- Plus-size?
More Like My Size – Ashley Grahams – TED Talk
- How
To Fall in Love with Yourself? - Andrea Russett
- YOU
LOOK DISGUSTING - my pale skin
Book:
- 13 ways
of looking at a fat girl by Mona Awad
- Make a list of what you love about yourself
Here's
mine:
Now it's
your turn:
Written by Naomi Duggan
Saturday, 14 January 2017
Voices of Teens
"I believe that to become more confident/have a positive body image is to stop comparing yourself to others. No one is perfect, which is something they should keep in mind. Everyone is perfect the way they are and they should flaunt what they have." -AL
"We should definitely
encourage models that have different figures, with different
backgrounds. The reason for this is because, as kids, we all grow up
with the typical supermodel. We idolized these people since society
literally only showcased them
However,
if we were to grow up having different role models with different
bodies that sort of resembled ours, we wouldn't have to learn to love
ourselves since the people we admire look like us.
I
personally think that it's a way that we could unconsciously learn
early on, how to love our body." -AA
"We should have different
shaped Barbie's, body confidence festivities, no separation between plus size and regular size and increase the
use of a diversity in models." -EBB
"It
is important to surround yourself with positivity to have a good body
image. Filter out any negativity, whether it's in your relationships
or online. Unfollow those haters, ditch the bullies and treat
yourself when you feel the need to!" -AO
"I want to be beautiful."
"Sweetie,
what do you want to be when you grow up?"
"I want to be beautiful." replied her 6 years old daughter.
The
mother was afraid, afraid that at a such young age, that her little
girl was already concerned about her appearance. Later on, the mother
looked at herself in the mirror with disgust. My thighs are huge. I
wish I had a flat stomach. My face is so round. I hate my double
chin. Why are my wrists so big. I wish I had a thigh gap. The
insecure parent started to shed tear, after tear and thought to
herself.
“How was she suppose to teach her children to love themselves, if she didn't even love herself in the first place?”
“How was she suppose to teach her children to love themselves, if she didn't even love herself in the first place?”
Our
society puts an enormous pressure on boys and girls of all ages to
strive to meet the standards of beauty.
Body
Image in teens
According
to the US Department of Heath and Human Services, “90%
of 15-17 years old girls want to change at least one aspect of their
physical appearance”, that being the case, body image is an
large issue especially in teenagers. During the teen years,
adolescents undergo many changes regarding their bodies. Girls grow
breasts and larger hips, whereas, boys will become more muscular. And
so, it takes time to get used their new appearance and many will lose
confidence in their looks.
Additionally,
teenagers brain development makes them more vulnerable to criticism,
teasing and negative comments. Adolescents tend to
spend more time with their friends than the other age groups, and
therefore are more likely to be negatively influenced by their peers.
Signs
of a negative body image
- Paying a lot of attention their looks (weight, shape)
- Signs of depressions and self-harm
- Dislikes the way their look
- Preoccupied by other people’s appearance and the beauty standards that are usually impossible to achieve
Positive VS Negative Body Image
People with a negative body image tend to:
- Have an poorer academic performance
- Avoid certain activities because they are concerned by the way they look
According to research, conducted by Dove, “17% of women claiming they won’t go to a job interview and 8% missing work on days when they feel bad about the way they look.”
- Miss out on life opportunities
On the other hand, people with a positive body image tend to:
- Focus more on friendships, relationships with their family, etc.
- Make new friends with more ease and are happy with their achievements
- Have a more positive outlook on their life
Men & Women
The
vast majority of campaigns that promote a positive body image are
targeted towards women. However, both men and women can have a
negative body image. In fact, over the past decade, body
dissatisfaction in men has increased.
The
Alliance for Eating Disorder Awareness reports that between 2.4 and
3.6 million men suffer from eating disorders today. Although the
number of men that are affected by eating disorders is much lower than
the number of women, both men and women clearly are affected by the
beauty standards present in our society.
In closing
In
the final analysis, parents are children's role model and should be
cautious of the way they act around their children, since this can
hugely impact their children's behaviors and their body image. Our
appearance is an superficial quality and as a society, we should
focus more on our internal beauty rather than what we look on the
outside.
One
day, if we redefine our beauty standards, maybe we will finally be
able to not only love each others bodies but also, love our own.
Written by Naomi Duggan
Friday, 13 January 2017
MEET ISA-BELLA LECLAIR: An Incredibly Uplifting and Inspirational Body Positive Advocate
Scrolling
down my news feed on Facebook, I came across an absolutely
brilliant story about Isa-Bella Leclaire. Born with a rare genetic
condition, she takes the challenge to fight for body diversity.
Isa-Bella inspires boys and girls of all ages to embraces their
appearance. Her body-positive message went viral all across social
media and made it's way around the globe. She has since been featured
in Seventeen magazine, People magazine and appeared on a segment by
TLC.
Isa-Bella
Leclair, an Uottawa student from New Brunswick suffers from Parkes
Webers Syndrome (PKWS). Some of the signs and symptoms of PKWS are
Arteriovenous fistulae (AVF) and lymphedema. According to the
Canadian Cancer Society, lymphedema is swelling that occurs
when lymph fluid can’t flow normally and builds up in the soft
tissues of a limb- which causes her right leg to expand to
approximately 40 pounds. Her condition does not label her in any way,
when you first meet Isa-Bella, the first thing you notice about her
is her compassionate and loving attitude she has towards the world.
Q&A
with Isa-Bella Leclair
Q1
ND: What
does “body positivity” mean to you?
IL:
The way I perceive “body positivity” is knowing what you deserve,
and loving yourself, not only your body but also, loving how you
portrait your body. If you want to be happy, the first step is loving
yourself: you need to love your body and acknowledge that
everyone's body is different and love all those differences.
Q2
ND: How
can others celebrate body diversity?
IL:
Celebrate it! Accept that everyone's different. One of my favorite
quotes is “Ugliness is just a failure of seeing” from the
book The humans written by Matt Haig. If you see
something and find something not so “pretty”, just seeing
it in another way, seeing the differences as more than just
“differences” and seeing the positive in it, can really help.
Q3
ND: How
do you live a positive life?
IL:
Find something you love and that inspires you. Put your energy into
something you love. Also, surround yourself with people you love and
try new things you never thought you would be able to do. Challenge
yourself! Acknowledge that your body is just a carve that dries upon
your thoughts and really, everything you do in life, stems from
your thoughts. Just having positive thoughts is the first step to a
positive life.
Q4
ND:
How did you develop self confidence?
IL:
I've had a physical disability since I was born and I grew up in a
family that believed that everyone was different and that was normal,
and everyone was beautiful. But when I got to high school, some
people didn't grow up, the same way as I did and already had an idea
of what was “beautiful” and what was “normal”. I had to
acknowledge that some people didn't grow up the same way as I did and
as a person who's different, it's kinda your “duty” to change
their thoughts. So, I took the challenge, not in a negative way, but
a positive one.
Q5
ND:
When do you feel the most proud of yourself and your body?
IL:
It's when I'm not 'healthy' that I feel sad, because there's no one
taking care of your body. I feel most proud of my body when I wake up
in the morning, I don't feel tired and I feel all energized. Or, when
I find new things I can do with my body that I didn't know I could
do, like new sports or engaging in new activities.
Q6
ND:
In what ways do you take care of your body and keep it healthy?
IL:
I have a 'sleep schedule'. Everyday I go to sleep at the same time
and wake up at the same time. I've been doing this for 2 years now,
and so, my body is used to it. I go to sleep at 10 and wake up every
morning at 7. Sleeping is very important. I also drink a lot of water
and just being careful of what you eat. Eating whole foods is good
for you but you shouldn't deprive yourself from other foods. If you
eat something and you don't feel good afterwards, it should be a sign
that your body doesn't like that. You should eat foods that make you
feel good and energized. Doing physical activities, it doesn't have
to be an extreme sport. I can't do extreme sports because of my heart
but I started doing yoga, which is really good because you can go at
your own pace. Going for walks and taking a breath of fresh air
are also very good ways. Avoid stress, school can be stressful for
some people, but make sure you're studying something you love and
know why you're studying that.
Q7
ND:
What advice would you give to someone who is self-conscious about
their appearance?
IL:
It doesn't just change from day to night, you don't just wake up with
self confidence. It is something you need to work on just like
anything else. You need to practice and build it up. Start with small
steps, just waking up in the morning, smile as you wake up and put a
song that you really like. Starting your day on the right foot. Even
if there's things that bring you down and you look at yourself and
feel bad. Trying not to compare yourself is also a very important
thing. Trying compassion instead of comparison is really good. Not
seeing others as a competition.
Your
body is something that you're stuck with all your life, you have all
your life to take care of it and acknowledge every part of it as your
own and make it your own. When you meet someone for the first time,
you can tell if someone takes cares of themselves. Even if you're
'different' and don't have that 'magazine', 'model' look, if you feel
comfortable in your own body, it will show.
Q8
ND:
Do you think that as a society we are too body focused?
IL:
Yes, for sure. It's not only the body, it's really everything. When
you look at your life, even as a child, you know kinda how it'll be:
you go to high school, then you graduate, you go to college, then you
get a job, start a family then die. This is what you should do. It's
not good that people raise their children thinking that that's the
way it should be. You should have the freedom to do anything you'd
like. You're not born with a image of how someone should look, or how
something should be. It's really brought up to you, through our
culture. It's good to brake these bonds and traditions. With the new
generation, we see that more, people who don't stick to one job,
people that adventure. Also, in magazines, there's a lot more
diversity, like in Covergirl, there was the first boy model. There's
a lot more curvy models and models with disabilities, which is
really cool. Just braking labels and telling yourself why it's that
way, questioning why you do stuff and if that is the right
thing.
Go
check out the article Isa-Bella wrote for The Lymphie Life
: https://thelymphielife.com/2015/06/12/i-always-end-up-still-feeling-good-about-my-body-how-one-woman-with-parkes-weber-syndrome-stays-positive/
Written by Naomi Duggan
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